Hey! I’m Jess.

& I can’t wait to champion your love.

I’m a lesbian 2022 bride, comedienne & empath. Throughout the planning of my own wedding, I saw so many opportunities for inclusion in the wedding industry that I decided I had to do something about it.

I want to work with you to create a wedding ceremony that reflects you as you are and have some fun doing it along the way!

 
 

Why officiate?

LGBTQ+ couples have usually relied on a friend or [chosen] family member to officiate their wedding, but most of the time that comes out of obligation instead of choice. You might be lucky enough to have a friend who is a wordsmith, but maybe you want to give them the day off to enjoy the festivities!

I started my platform to affirm and celebrate all relationships - exactly how they are. Every ceremony should be as unique as every couple, and together, we can create that for you!

About Me

I live in Oakland with my wife Jean and our two pups, Jack & Iggy.

I’ve been to 23 countries (and counting).

I speak French, and I used to teach it.

Sometimes I do stand up comedy.

I believe Black lives matter & that sex work is real work.

I have a Vespa named Seraphina.

I’m a late-bloomer lesbian and came out at 28.

I love Schitt’s Creek, so if it’s your dream to re-enact Moira marrying David & Patrick, I’m your gal.